"Hoe" is a slang variant of the word "whore"; a prostitute.
A hoe is a person who offers herself sexually to gain the approval of others, or other benefits. This may not mean she actually has sex with anyone, a person who flirts too much may be designated a "hoe" as well.
Me and one of my employees had the age old conversation of what makes a women a whore. She thinks if u sleep with more than ONE man in her book ur considered a hoe... And let's be real ladies... This day and age, who's only been with 1 man? When she said that I was thinking so, u think im a hoe cuz I been with about lets say ummmmm 10 guys since I was 16.T hen I thought for u to be a grown woman calling another woman a hoe is childesh, I thought it was so high school... I feel like if ur grown u can sleep with who u want when u want and how many u want. I think maturity level and self respect would play a part but if it was over years I dont see the problem. When it comes down to it all that matters is what u think of yourself. If you can look in the mirror and smile because you feel good about yourself and how your living your life. Then ok great for you. My aunt id from the old school and I asked her the same question. Her responds was In my book hoe is short for hooker, hooker is slang for prostitute, and a prostitute is someone who has sex for money. A slut is a scandalous heffa who will sleep with anyone or anything out of a lack of self respect and disregard of others. I kinda of see her point too. there are women out there that will on purpose sleep with another women man. Now don't get me wrong. I have done my dirt in the past and have friends that have also. There is a flip side to this. My brother was in an open relationship with two women. Does that make him a man whore? Both women knew each other and knew the deal. Personally I though it was cool to have two future sister in laws ( if we lived in Utah)
I think it's disgusting that men can get away with all that they do, yet women do the exact same and get called derogatory names. I think if a man has sex with multiple partners and continiously boasts about it, he is obviously a slut. There are no two ways about it. Men can also be sluts, they can also be whores, there is nothing that distinguishs those terms to one particular sex. I find that most men are worse than any one woman can be when it comes to being a whore, because they find pleasure and joy out of it and put women down.
My final thought.....Men and women can be Whores, but in the eyes of the world today. A women whore is much worst then a man whore. If your going to be a whore do it with some class and always use protection FROM THE START..aka first insert. Man whore or women whore....STD's and HIV don't give a damn.
Tiamia "RookieLove" Owens
Good blog!..In my opinion, a whore is a prostitute, they have sex for money or exchange for something of value. A "hoe" is a someone who has sex indiscriminately, such as a woman who would allow a "train" to be ran on her by strangers because she has nothing better to do. What kind of person does that? A perfect example is a young woman they used to call Chewbacca because she liked to perform fellatio or "chewing". One evening she was asked to perform fellatio on over 20 dudes and she said okay and the dudes lined up. She is now married and and I bet her husband has no idea of that evening.
ReplyDeleteBack to the subject, if consenting adults choose to have sex, there is nothing wrong with that and no one is a hoe. If one the consenting adults decides to then have consensual sex with the partners best friend, siblings brothers and his other friends, then that person is a hoe, man or woman. A hoe has no scruples.
Well said SonavaGunn..."A hoe [man or woman] has no scruples."
ReplyDeleteWhat's pretty effed up is the hoe double standard in our society. If a man ha multiple sex partners, he called a pimp or a playa but if a woman engages in the exact same activity then she is called a slut/hoe/freak/whore/skank/smut (and the list goes on). A hoe is a hoe regardless of gender.
What ever happened to the good old fashioned morality of "no sex before marriage?"
ReplyDeleteHow can we accept a situation; in this world of HIV/AIDS, where it is ok for a "grown woman" to have slept with 10 or more men since she was 16? What kind of marriage will this woman expect to have in future? Will she stop looking for that excellent lover? If she can't keep herself (and certainly this applies to the guys as well) "pure for the marriage bed", how can he/she expect fidellity in marriage.
I know that this sounds so "old school", but reading the above posts, I cannot escape the fear that this overly permissive attitude is just setting us (and future generations) for disappointment...