According to Webster dictionary Love is an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment. Generally when a person falls in love they have heightened romantic interest in someone else and this doesn’t necessarily have to occur at first sight. Many people are friends first and find over time their feelings change to those more romantic in nature. They might want more from a relationship than just friendship and they may cherish more than friendly feelings for the person with whom they've fallen in love. Most times they agree that being just friends is best for both parties. When deep down the love is burning a hole in their soul.
The emotions which we experience when we are falling in love are almost enough to set off fireworks. Love is a powerful emotion and one which most of us will luckily have the pleasure to experience at some point in our lives. Love knows no boundaries and it will infect anyone irregardless of one's race, stature, age or intelligence. People thing they can be in love with more than one person at a time. That is false. When your in love with someone you are giving that person your full emotions. Just saying I love you don't cut it. Love is a action work that most people take for granted. You have to show real love and when you do...its a beautiful thing. I have two friends that are in love with each other but due to certain things in the universe they are not in a relationship. The love that my male friend has for this female is like no other that I have ever seen. He is her knight in shining armor and once they both realize that. It will be a love explosion for the ages. That is the love that I wish to give a man sometime here in the future.
My love life has taken so many twist and turns here in the past couple of years. I have tried to date the fixer up guy, the common guy, the young guy, and the older guy. None of them was working for me. I stop dating one guy due to the way he chew his steak. My dad raised me to never depend on a man for nothing and I have to admit that I took that and ran with it. I wanted kids..no need to find the right guy and get married. I took care of that myself. Repairs around the house ( that my brother fuck up trying to fix) I read up on it and fix it myself. The one thing my dad forgot to tell me that I would need a man for........was LOVE.
It will be interesting to see how you balance your "I don't need no man" attitude with your now admitted desire for love. You are quick to criticize and denigrate, how will you be patient and uplift, when he will constantly be reminded that his is only needed for one thing and that one thing can easily be replaced.
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