This is a special blog that is close to my heart about one of my friends. This is also a lesson to all who wake up one day and think their shit don't stink.
A good close friend of mine is in a relationship with a good dude. To define how good he is would take up too much of my blog space and I don't have the time to list it all. When they met she was in street hustle mode living in the projects and not doing too much for herself. Fast forward they start dating and she lose what little job she had. As a good man should do he helped her get an apt and let her use his 2009 Yukon until she gets back on her feet. Fast forward again she falls short on money for school and start stripping to makes ends meet behind her boyfriends back. He finds out a couple of weeks later and tells her he will support her until she gets back in school and working if she quite stripping. She does and everything seems to be working out.
Last fast forward. She is in school full-time and got a nice paying job with great benefits. All seems to be going great but being a full-time student and working full-time has put a strain on the relationship. Tuesday thru Saturday she is in school or working from 8am to 9pm.
Now the problem...She tells her man that she too tired to hang out, but choose to hit up a club with some male and female co workers. One of the male coworkers buys her lunch everyday and she gave him a lap-dance in the club. he Kissed her on the cheek and the neck but she blamed it on the alcohol. She tells her man two days later but left out the kissing part. He was upset but after a day he forgave her and was ready to make the relationship work. Now she is on her B.S and told him that because he went out and didn't come home she need to think about this relationship. Told him that if he want her...he knows where to find him. She said her problem with her boyfriend is that he is too needy and his sex is too long. She want a 5 minute guy not a hour + guy.
Tell me what you think? My friend crazy or is her boyfriend giver her too much rope?
It's sounds like she is very selfish. Hopefully she will wise up or else she will lose him.
ReplyDeleteIt's the same story women say they want a nice guy and when they get one he's too nice
ReplyDeleteThe problem is that he is weak and she's a parasite. He didn't know where to draw the line, he should have done it long ago, and she hasn't seen a reason to leave until she now has all the things she could get out of it.
ReplyDeleteHe gave too much and was mesmerized by her physical nature. She saw a great opportunity to do better. They both got what they really wanted. If he wanted a good woman he wouldn't have picked her. Your friend is a hoodrat and only doing what she knows how to do. So its actually working out just like its supposed to.
She just dont want to be tied down it seems that she loves what the night life gives her....whats that old saying? You can't make a hoe a housewife!
ReplyDeleteJust to follow up and due to my blog they have broken up.
ReplyDeleteBest thing for the 2 of them. Learn from this experience, grow from it and don't get bitter about relationships.
ReplyDeleteGood for him. She'll find another man to leach off of. They always do.
ReplyDeleteShe lost a guy because she did not value him. He lost a woman that he likely saw as a project, they both are better off. She will likely continue her career as a money grubbing stripper tech. He will likely find a church girl and be unhappy with her statue like sexual ability.
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